Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take,
but by the moments that take our breath away

September

Which month are you?
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de·tri·tus (d-trts)n. pl. detritus
Loose fragments or grains that have been worn away from rock.
Disintegrated or eroded matter: the detritus of past civilizations
A mass of substances worn off from solid bodies by attrition, and reduced to small portions; as, diluvial detritus.

Need I say more

Today was not a good day
I was very upset that I was lied to about a job promotion. I was lead to believe that I was next in line for a promotion. I had taken on all this extra aggravation and responsibility of said job when it was never intended to come my way.
I was ready to loose my mind.But I refuse to let them abuse my intellectual assets

besides, God does not like ugly.

So here is my new dilemma

Some one accidentally gave me to much money. Now I have been waiting for them to tell me that they mad an error and take it back. This has not happened. Now this money is now burning a whole in my pocket. I can see all kinda things that need to be purchased with these funds . So am I gonna tell the slap dick that they made a mistake and give them back there money or should I spend it and worry about the rest later.
What would you do?
And yes Fred I already know what you would do

Here is some history that I forgot to include on a previous blog because I spent the better part of an hour trying to update my blog online then I lost all my info.

About a month and a half ago I’m in my room when one of my nephews comes to tell me that I better come out side because AAES (the guy I live with ) is having issues with one of the neighbor’s kids.
So I go.
Well it turns out that the 10 year old neighborhood child was chasing another one of the neighborhood children around with a golf club screaming that he’s gonna smash his F*CK*ng head in, while his 14 year old sister was egging him on. Screaming do it, do it. And as with all things on by block it happened in my yard. Luckily my children were not involved. So AAES tells all the bad assess that the need to take that mess home. Well I guess that the 14 year old did not take it to well, the fact that an adult was telling her what to do . In fact she said something to the effect of
“Mind your own F***ing business, Fat Ass.
Well I don’t know about you, but I if a child thought that is was ok to use that kind of language with me I’d have issues too.
Well now the story starts to get interesting.
AAES calls the girl a F*CK*NG C*NT and tells here to get to stepping.
(Now I will agree with most of you that calling a girl a C*NT is just as bad all calling all women B*tch*s. )
So I go next door and tell the children that when their parents get home that I want to talk with them. Did I forget to mention that they were unsupervised children.
Anyway about 45 minutes later the parents come home, their children rush up to the car and tell them their side of the story. This set the father off. He rushes up to the fence that separates his yard from ours, all 5’7” maybe 150 lbs. And starts screaming at AAES all 6’7” around 340lbs. He can palm a basket ball with one hand (Big Boy).
Anyway The neighbor starts screaming at AAES how the f*ck can you say that to my child, what’s your F*ck*ing problem,
AAES says you need to learn how to raise your children, I will not be disrespected by anyone especially a child.
A few more words were exchanged and the neighbor decides that he wants to get up in AAES’s face, so he goes around the fence and come onto our property. Of course now both of them look like they are bulls about to charge . So I think that maybe I should be the voice of reason so I step in the middle of all this. litteraly in the middle I tell the very upset neighbor that anything he has to say to AAES he can say it from his yard, you need to get off my property. Instead of backing up he gets closer, all the while screaming and cussing so here I am standing in the middle of this. I am the shortest thing there. Trying to add up in my head if I have enough money to bail AAES out of jail.. well the neighbor takes another step closer, he is so close in fact that he is almost in my face, invading my personal space so I hold up my hands telling this guy to go back home, now before I can blink an eye AAES grabs the neighbor by the neck and fling him up against the wall and says a few more things like, he’s an unfit father and if he does not learn how to raise his children then some one else would. Now the neighbor is in a rage and he starts screaming that he’s gonna call the police and franks going to jail. Because he has witness to AAES assaulting him. His whole family saw it happen. (just for the record I did have enough money for bail). So now we are waiting for the police to come and AAES being his usual self starts to water the grass, I guess it is soothing to him. Will the neighbor next door is still in a rage and rushes the fence and tells frank that he’s going to jail., the f word is passed back and forth and the neighbor decides to throw a large rock are AAES. Well the rock is too heavy to do any real damage if fact it only goes about 4 feet into my yard. Well what does frank do he quirts him with the water house now after all the cussing and such that’s been going on for the last hour or so to see AAES squirt him with the water house was the last thing I expected and evidently it was the last thing that the neighbor expected because he shut up for a good 30 seconds just starring at AAES , well the guy starts to sputter with bits of spittle flying out of his mouth and the F word is uttered once again so AAES just waters him again. Well I guess the 2nd watering cooled him off some, because he stomps back to his front porch to wait for the cops to come.
Well the cops come, ok a cop comes. He parks in front of my house He takes one look at all 6’7” of Mr. AAES and immediately calls for back up. Then he goes next door to take there statement while he is waiting for back up, the other cop comes and they both come to my house to take out statement. Now up until this point the cops only know that frank snatched the man up by his neck and called his daughter a C*NT. So we enlighten him on all the going how this 10 year old boy is chasing people around with golf clubs threaten to do all types of bodily harm, how the 14 year old disrespect us and is encouraging him, how the father instead of coming to discuss this like an adult comes charging over like he’s gonna do something then to top it off how AAES thought that the neighbor was about to cause me bodily harm so he just snatches him to keep me safe(that was so sweet). Now the enlighten cops go back over to the neighbor’s and proceeds to tell him that his kids were being bad like we all knew. That if they had been supervised none of this would have happened, They also informed the guy that since he came onto our property and was asked to leave and he didn’t do it and it was feared bodily harm could of happen to me. That AAES was within his power to protect me. WOW.
But they did state that we are not allowed on their property and vice versa.
Isn’t this just beautiful?