Well I had to take the advise of The Diva.
I had to be mean to the almost ex-husband. He wanted to know why we did not spend more time together just as friends. Why we don’t hang out. I then explained to him that we are not friend; in fact I don’t like him very much. If we did not have 2 children together I would not even talk to him.
So in no uncertain term would I go out, hang out or just talk over my day with him.
I have a date this Sunday to finish my paperwork for my divorce.